Okay we constantly hear how great it is to be in a relationship, how fantastic it is to have someone to cuddle up with at night, and to conveniently share the bills with. No ever seems to talk about what you might miss from your single life though. It pays to take a little time to think about what you’re going to miss before you embark on looking for a serious relationship otherwise your search could lead to big disappointments all-round.
The plus side is that you can still use chat sites and dating sites to find casual fun as long as you’re honest about what you’re looking for. Here are the most common things that people I relationships say that they miss about being single.
Eating what they like – if you’re cooking for someone else you always shave to consider what they like to eat, the same when it comes to ordering a takeaway. Men often complain that their girlfriends make them eat more healthily than they would usually d when all they want to do is eat a burger.
Attending weddings and family events alone. As soon as the cat gets out of the bag that you’re hiding a boyfriend or girlfriend at home al the family want to meet them, as do your friends, your colleagues, and the British army.
Slobbing around sometimes. Okay, even when you’re single you should not completely let yourself go but when you’re in a relationship you can’t let anything slip. Men have to behave reasonably well all the time. A woman can’t miss a was or go too long without having a pedicure, or whatever.
Impromptu nights-out. When your friends call you up to ask you fancy a night on the tile, like tonight, you have to consider what your partner might think. Even if you haven’t planned anything together it’s assumed that you’ll spend the night together. When you’re single you can run away for the weekend if you feel like it, on your own.
Sleeping alone. Hogging the quilt, stretching out across the whole bed, eating ice cream from the tub before you go to sleep; all things that you can only get away with doing when you’re single but fall by the wayside when you get into a relationship.
So it up to you now whether you’re ready to give up your single life in favour of a relationship. If you’re not don’t waste time worrying about it, you can still have some of the perks of being in a relationship. Set up your phone chat dating profile and getting chatting to men and women who want casual dating.