There’s a reason that commitment phobia is such a widespread phenomenon amongst men. It’s mainly because during their dating days they have met some woman who displayed some of the cardinal sins of dating. If you a woman who is lacking in the dating department, it’s not the end of the world, you just need to make sure you fix your flaws before you try again. Here are the types of women which men avoid at all costs.
The First Class Flirt – Yes, yes, yes; men love it when you flirt with them, it makes them feel wanted, and warm inside, you see? What they don’t like, being the proud creatures that they are, is when you flirt with their friends, brothers, the barman, the door man, and the taxi driver. It’s just not cool. What men see when you flirt with everyone is someone who needs constant reassurance about themselves.
The Commitment Addict – So you met him one day, called him the next, and told him you loved him by the end of the week? Asked for a key to his place, talked about marriage, and ordered a wedding dress? Not good at all. Alarm bells are ringing in his head and you’ve wrecked all chances of ever having a happy life together. He’s probably left the country already. You need to chill out, take your time, and let the good times roll.
Party Girl – All seems well at first. He loves that you can keep up with him, go out all night, and that you get on with all of his mates. Pretty soon though, he will fancy staying home with a takeaway on a Friday evening; and that means with you, not with his mates. See the problem here? He avoids party girl so he doesn’t have to live with endless lonely nights waiting for you to come home.
Chatty Woman – Here it is all about hitting a balance. Of course he doesn’t want you to be a mute; he wants to talk to you, he wants you to have an opinion but he doesn’t want to hear your voice constantly; especially if he’s watching the football or if you’re having sex. Just reel it in a bit, it’s not difficult. If you listen more you’ll naturally talk less.
The list could be endless and this one is by no means exhaustive but one thing at a time eh? Check your ‘avoid-ability’ credentials against these four types of women and right any wrings you have before moving. If you need to test your dating prowess sort out your chat dating profile now and see how many men want to date you.