There is an art in talking sexy to a woman or a man who has
caught your eye; it is an art many do not possess, yet sexy chat is easier than you think. Find out
how to talk sexy and have fun.
AAll you need for a sexy chat is a willing mind and an open eye. You simply need
to pay attention and you will reap the rewards.
Mastering the art of sexy chat
First of all, free your mind of any barriers and inhibitions. Many people miss the ability to let go and can’t express themselves. Sexy chat is all about being able to relax, have fun and talk without inhibitions. You need to be able to talk without feeling nervous. Don’t think too much about exactly what you’re going to say, and don’t come across as too prepared.
Whilst for most conversations you should think about what you are going to say before you actually say it, it’s not the same for sexy chat. When talking sexy, you need a free mind to express yourself in a fun and relaxed way. You should not use any ‘pre-written’ chat lines as you will come across scripted and stiff.
Just monitor the conversation and follow itJust monitor the conversation and follow its path. This may sound strange, but
this is very important. Talking sexy is a fun way of interacting and building a
relationship. However, if you misread the conversation, it could end your
chat very quickly.
Just have fun talking sexy
Talking sexy is all about light hearted sexual fun and banter. It is always
better to keep within the boundaries of light hearted sexual practises. Do not
explore the topic too deep nor go into niche sexual areas unless your partner prompts the
subject first. You don’t want this to drive a wedge in the early part of your
relationship by scaring your partner with too much explicit sex chat. ind that many people miss the boat and continue with sexy chat long after the conversation has moved on to an altogether different topic.
Finally, always listen to your partner, sexy chat or not. Not paying attention to your partner's suggestions will be very evident. If you do not pay attention, it will ruin your chat and even possibly the chances of another date.