Phone chat is currently one of the hottest ways of bagging a date. The problem is
that most people are not too sure on how to go about chatting by phone. So, what
is phone chat all about? Find out all you need
to know about chatting by phone and how to make every minute count.
These days, in addition to bars, clubs and online dating you have other ways of
talking to the opposite sex. For many, mobile phones are the media of choice for
chatting with other women or men. Sometimes people know each other already and just chat
by phone after a date. Other times they meet through internet dating sites and
use phone chat as a secure way of talking to one another. Either way, phone chat
is increasingly the chosen path to dating.
Be yourself and get prepared
There are many tips and tricks to help you in having great phone chat as you are
about to find out, but there is one overall important factor that you need to
take into account...this is you, so be yourself!.
If you don’t have the confidence to talk to other people, then you will never enjoy chatting and will not be successful in doing so. Try to be calm
before you embark in phone chat. If necessary get yourself into a quiet room and
carry out breathing exercises so that you’re ready. Don’t panic, don’t be
nervous but be prepared and be yourself.
Get a pad and pen and write about topics you may wish to bring up in conversation. Note small
stories about yourself that will fill quiet moments. This way you have something
as a back-up to keep conversation flowing during quiet, awkward moments. It also helps if you
have a mental block and don’t know what to talk about.
Make sure you talk during your conversation but also ensure you listen to the man or
woman you’re chatting with. There is nothing worse than someone talking all the
time and not allowing the other person to talk, or even worse them
not actually paying attention to what you are saying! If you don’t let your chatting partner talk or you
don’t pay attention, there is no way the conversation will blossom into anything
Ask questions about the person you’re talking to. This will make them feel that
you’re interested in them and will put them at ease too. You have to
remember that you will not be the only person who might feel a little
Have fun chatting
Finally, make sure you have fun! Phone chat is all about having fun and meeting
new people. If you’re not having fun, then it’s most likely that the girl or guy
you are chatting with, will not be enjoying it either.