Tried phone chat before, but you had nothing to talk about? It is
the worst possible thing that can happen to you when talking to a man or a
woman, or at least it would seem so at the time. You are on the phone, chatting
to someone who you are really interested in, and all of a sudden, there is a
lull in the conversation. When neither of you can think of something to say, the
silence can become deafening. Nobody wants to be in an awkward moment like that,
but sometimes it seems unavoidable. When a phone chat becomes uncomfortably
silent, you have a real problem on your hands!
Ideally, you should think about some subjects before chatting with someone who
you want to date. Of course, there are the obvious topics that are always good
during a chat. You can ask them about their job, what they like to do for fun,
their family background, and so on. However, what do you do once you have
exhausted those options? How do you get someone who is a little bit shy to open
up about themselves?
Phone chat is like any other face to face conversation. The person you chat with
has to be as relaxed and comfortable as possible. Be interested in what they are
saying, and make sure you add your own input without dominating the conversation
or interrupting them. An already shy person will really become reserved if you
don’t let them get a word in edgeways. Any good phone chat has a lot of give and
take to it. If your chatting partner isn’t participating, you won’t have a very
good time.
You also don’t want to be the shy person, so you need to get yourself accustomed
to sharing things about yourself too. You can do this by talking about things
you are comfortable with, so the other person can get to know you better.
Otherwise, they may become bored very quickly, and your first phone chat may end
up being your last with no hope for a date!
Always be thinking about what to talk about next, in case things start to get too
quiet. If it makes you feel better, you can even make a little list of subjects
you’d like to talk about, and if your talk comes to a halt, a quick glance at it can
give you an idea of what to ask about. That way your nerves won’t get the better of
you. Relax, be yourself, and you will have a great phone chat for sure.
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