First impressions count, we all know that. When you’re using phone chat dating as
a means to meet single men and women your first point of contact is your
recorded message. If someone listens to your message and it sounds dull or
uninteresting what are your chances of them leaving you a reply?
Your recorded chat line message is just like a verbal personal ad. It has to give
enough information about you but leave enough intrigue for the caller to want to
chat more with you. If it’s your first time using phone chat lines, a few
pointers for recording your greeting message won’t go amiss.
Give a little, not a lot – Let the caller know who are, what you do, and what
you’re looking for. You don’t have to give too much away too soon, and you
should only say what you feel comfortable with. What you say in your chat line
message should be enough to get the other party interested but entice them to
call you to chat more.
My dream chat partner – You should already know what you’re interested in so let
your potential chat partner know too. Give a bit of a hint towards your
interests and what you most like to chat about. It’s no good leaving a message
that says you love to indulge in philosophical conversations about Plato’s Cave
if the only thing you know about is football.
Let them know what you want – When you record your phone chat message try to be
clear about what you want from your phone chat experience. If you’re only in it
for flirty fun or sexy chat, let them know. If, on the other hand, you’re hoping
to meet the man or woman of your dreams, make it clear in your message too.
Be honest – Always be honest about who you are and how you look. Don’t make out
that you’re a tall, dark, handsome model type if you’re really just average Joe.
If you’re phone chat leads to a face to face date you’re either going to have to
come clean before hand or you could be left pretty red faced when your dream
date realises that you lured them in on false pretences.
You are cordially invited – Invite the caller to chat more with you, let them
know that you really are up for it. Try letting them know when you are most
likely to be available. Try something like ‘I’m at my most friendly on a
Saturday morning’ or ‘I’m free most evenings. Call me after seven’.
Now that you’ve got some phone chat tips under your belt stop beating about the
bush and get that message recorded. You’ve got to be in it to win it, you see?
One sure fire way to make sure no one leaves you a phone
chat line message is passing up the chance to get your message out there.
Give it a go, no need to be shy.