Are we all still stuck in the Middle Ages or have times moved on since it was unacceptable for a woman to fall into bed with her date the first time they meet? When it comes to having sex with a new partner, finding the right time can be a real pain. Some people believe that sex on a first date is absolutely acceptable while other wouldn’t even consider seeing their partner naked until after the wedding. Here is what real gentlemen think about women who have sex on a first date.
1. The double standard rule still applies. Though almost all men think it is acceptable for them to have sex on a first date, it a woman does it they assume she would do it with anyone. This leaves a sort of gap in the market; who exactly are they having sex with if it isn’t their date?
2. Some men also have a fear of looking easy. So many men really are on a mission to find a nice girl who they’ll spend the rest of their life with; it’s just a few bad eggs that give them all a bad name. Men also worry that if thy ask a lady to go home with them the first time they meet he’ll assume he’s a player and decide not to see him again.
3. He won’t dump you just because you had sex. It’s maybe not the best news but if he gets rid of you after you’ve been to bed for the first time, he was planning to do it anyway, sorry girls. It’s a primal instinct for men to get the prize they have been after so of course he wants to try the goods before he passes them up.
4. Let’s have a cuddle never really means ‘let’s just have a cuddle’. I he asks you in for coffee, tells you he’ll sleep on the sofa, or promises that he doesn’t want to have sex but he’s happy to share a bed you’re on rocky ground. Basically, once he’s got you in his lair he will be all over you like a rash.
5. Having sex on a first date doesn’t always mean that there’s no chance of a relationship blossoming. Most modern men think that if he you fancy each other enough to head to bed the first time you meet, you should go for it. There’s no point in putting it off if it’s imminent really.
So girls the good news is that if you’re up for it, so are the guys. The bad news is that whether a guy plans to dump you or not, he’ll still try to have sex with you first. Of course, to get to that point you need a date first. Get your online dating profile sorted, get online, and see if you can spot the showers from the growers.