Girls chat can be hard
What do you find harder? Walking up to a girl in a bar or club and
trying to strike up conversation or simply trying to hold a phone conversation
with a girl? The answer for most would be a phone conversation, which will be a
surprise to most girls.
Lack of eye contact is one of the main reasons why chatting with girls by phone
makes lads more nervous. When in a face to face conversation, a lot of lads feel
comfortable because they can gauge a girls interest by the responses they
receive combined with their body language. The issue is that a chat with girls by
phone involves striking up conversation without being able to see their body
language, so not being able to judge the impact being made by the phone conversation.
Read some our tips to help you through a phone chat with most girls. We hope our
advice will help make you more confident and arm you with the tools needed to
make your phone conversation enjoyable, fun and successful.
Tips to chat with girls by phone
Tip number 1: Ask open questions.
Open questions are ones where more than a yes or no answer is required. These
questions help create more conversation and help ensure that no uncomfortable
silences occur. Here is an example of what we mean:
”Did you enjoy you night out last night?” “Yes.” (closed question)
”What ”What did you get up to last night?” “We went to the cinema and a restaurant.”
The open question then allows you to ask further questions about what film they
watched and which restaurant they went to.
Tip number 2: Actively listen.
Many people find it difficult to listen, and simply launch into their own day and
thoughts. This could turn off the girl you are chatting to. Let her talk and
listen intently. Show interest in what she has to say and ask questions about
what has been said.
Tip number 3: Don’t overdo it.
When on the phone you lose body language so bragging about what you have done or
over embellishing a story will get lost over a phone. You may come across as
full of yourself, which can be a negative impression. Talk about your stories
and make them interesting, but don’t overdo it.
Tip number 4: Filler conversation.
Have some ideas written down for filler conversations. These are small anecdotes
that can fill any lulls in your chat so you don’t end up in an uncomfortably
long silence. Once one uncomfortable silence occurs it’s difficult to stop
another one. Having planned topics in mind can stop this from happening.
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