One of the best things about phone chat dating is that it can be as anonymous as
you like. If all goes wrong and you make a fool of yourself, there’s no need for
your chat partner to know you are. You can simply forget about it and move onto
the next one.
If you’re serious about making your chat dating experiences work for you though,
here are some tips to make sure your first chat date into a second, and a third,
and a fourth.
1. Plan your attack – I’m not talking about writing down a tirade of abuse to
throw at your chat date. What I mean is, know what you’re going to say or at
least some of it. Silences can be awkward for both parties so make sure you’re
not the one causing them.
2. Timing is everything – Calling someone the second you get in from work can
make you look a little bit desperate. Likewise, calling on a weekend evening can
seem like you have nothing better to do. Wait until you’re relaxed, in the
evening, and then make your call.
3. If your first chat date goes well and you’ve agreed to speak again another
time but haven’t set a specific date, leave it a few days. It can be exciting to
meet someone who you love chatting to but give them too much too soon and it
will be over before it has started.
4. If you want your first chat to go anywhere, your chat partner needs to feel
like you’re interested in what they say. Keep your conversation moving forward
by asking questions about them and listening carefully to their answers.
5. The number one tip you should keep in mind when chatting to a new chat partner
for the first time is to be yourself. In the end, the person they’ll want to
meet up with is the one they are chatting to. If you have to pretend to be
someone else you’re setting yourself up for a fail.
Now you are poised, practised, and prepared it’s time to start chatting to
thousands of available men and women who are also looking for a fun, flirty
phone chat partner. Set up your chat box message, fill in your profile, and
chat, chat, chat.