On the whole, men and women using phone chat services for phone dating are genuine people who are want to get to know someone and progress to a face to face date. Safety costs nothing though and it is always worth keeping this in mind when chatting to new men women on the phone.
Personal information- Some people are just curious and like to ask a lot of question. Others fish for information so they can use it against you. Just be wary of anyone who asks too many questions about where you live, or where you work and treat them with caution. Try to be brief in your answers, for example, tell someone you work for a big firm but not the exact location.
Sexual conversations – This depends on what you fell comfortable talking about and what you’re looking for from your phone chats. If you’re not comfortable having a sexual conversation with someone on the phone then just don’t do it. You are in control of the call and if someone makes you feel uncomfortable you’re within your rights to hang up.
Your phone number – Phone dating services are set up in a way which is intended to keep your contact information private so take advantage of the privacy they give you. You shouldn’t have to share your personal e-mail address, MSN name, or telephone number unless you feel like you really want to. Remember that even your full name can be used to find out information about you.
You don’t have to put up with it – If you feel like you are being harassed through phone chat or you feel like someone could pose a threat to others don’t hold back on reporting them to the phone dating service. Providers want to create a safe environment for people to chat and they do not take well to people who abuse the service.
Take your time – One of the big advantages of phone dating is that is allows users to chat to others for as long as they like before meeting up with them. If someone is pushing you to meet up after the first chat don’t feel like you should be pressured into it. Chat to someone else who is willing to get to know you first.
Phone dating services are full of great men and women who want to chat, have fun, and date. If you have an unsavoury experience on a chat dating site don’t let it put you off; there are hundreds of other sweet men and women waiting to chat with you.